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For Asperser's we feel its the worst thing you can do for your child or children

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ASPERGER'S YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL TO ME

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LOVE!  

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My Dolphin Totem

MatrixJulie Desmarais Co owner of the- James Street Wellness centre

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Julie is a friend a wonderful  Healer, Emotional Intuitive, Usui  Holographic Reiki Master  & Teacher. See Julie on YouTube   Several  years ago CJOH's Regional Contact did a fabulous piece on Julie's work which has been re-edited and transferred on to

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A Mothers Loving Touch

   We need to take care of ourselves and our spiritual side with Love! 

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~~ Anything is Possible~~

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Profile & Philosophy

 

Do you know what it feels like to have this syndrome?

 

 

Professional Speaking  magazine for Ontario teachers

Read article helping Asperger's We have information we can share how our son was able to succeed in high school that you could share with your child's school and if they don't have this program they may be able to look into it. It did make a difference for us. 

Autistic children live in their own world, Asperger's children live in our world but under their rules

Information on doctor who helped us in 1992. He has helped many people internationally with their health issues and parents with special needs children

 I know toxins are damaging Autism May Be Linked to

     Weatherman Mr Sunshine

Our son was given the Elaine Trenholm Memorial Award  

 This award is presented to the students that have been positive role models both at school and in the community and have achieved academic success in pursuit of a college education. 2oo7

Some of our son's Teachers aides we would like to thank

 

 

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Please don't ever feel guilty if you put your child on medication this is what some doctors and teachers were telling us.

A drug they are giving Asperger's children

Excerpt from Talking Back to Ritalin by Peter R  Briggen M.D

Risperdal and its side effects:  please go to this website

 http://adrugrecall.com/risperdal/stroke.html

A Book I highly recommend   

Awakening Intuition

Awakening Intuition

 

GRADUATION 2007 

Letter to our son's teacher in high school Mrs. Barker

Letter to our son's teacher's aide

A letter to our son on Graduation

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Our son Graduating College

 

 

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Autism Ontario

Here's an outdoor summer camp in the West end that may be of interest (10 to 18 years of age). Note there are also volunteer opportunities for students in high school.             www.autismontario.com/ottawa                

AS Parent Support Group
Funded by Autism Ontario -- Ottawa Chapter

Heather Fawcett runs the AS support Group here in Ottawa she sends information out to parents with Asperger's children. If you would like to get in touch with her

h.fawcett@sympatico.ca

 

 

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Canadian Montessori Academy

The school takes autistic children and are having wonderful results'

I meet Sherie de Mel,   

( CMA Principal) a lovely lady. I said I would put the information about her school on our website.

 

The CMA story unfolds in 1944 Sri Lanka, where a new mother, Ayna Cader, (CMA Founder), attended lectures given by Dr. Maria Montessori. Dr. Montessori had started her first Government Approved Montessori Teacher Education Programme , a post graduate program offered for certified teachers. Ayna, a graduate of this program, was inspired to educate her newborn, Sherie de Mel, (CMA Principal). Ayna proceeded to follow her passion and taught in numerous Montessori schools throughout Sri Lanka, and England. Her dream of starting a Montessori school came to fruition in April 1980; Tiny Tots Montessori School opened its doors and welcomed 10 students. The dream evolved from a small rented space in a church with a 25 student capacity to the owned facility with a 300+ student capacity today.

 Canadian Montessori Academy

Email: info@montessori-academy.com

 

 

A story in the Citizen newspaper and a video about Shannon My client Debbie Alexander's daughter  With the help of instructors Nathalie Gour and Art Mackie, 25-year-old Shannon Alexander takes riding lessons at Carlsbad Springs' Happy trails Riding Stables. The three-year-old program has mroe than 20 special needs stdents ranging in age form five to 53.

With the help of instructors Nathalie Gour and Art Mackie, 25-year-old Shannon Alexander takes riding lessons at Carlsbad Springs' Happy trails Riding Stables. The three-year-old program has more than 20 special needs stdents ranging in age form five to 53. Photograph by: Ashley Fraser, The Ottawa Citizen

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A story in the Citizen newspaper of Jonathan Davies  who has Asperger's. A victim of fraud during last year's bus strike. He achieved a moral victory in small claims court Jonathan's superb memory for detail played a prime role in the Judge's unconditional acceptance of his version of events. Read about it here .and how a couple took advantage of him. I know Jonathan a very sweet man, he use to call me

Davies showed up at small claims court

 

What will happen to these adults when their parents can't look after them anymore, where will they go?

No help to be found

In our story I talk about our son being on Risperdal for a very short time and why we took him off it.

If you want to know more about this drug Risperdal and the side effects

 Click here  http://adrugrecall.com/risperdal/stroke.html

 

The Geek Syndrome

Did you know that in Ottawa Canada and Silicon Valley there is a higher incidence of autism due in part to the large number of highly educated technology workers. A lot of Asperger's   adults go into engineering. Very  ---interesting article. An excerpt    By Steve Silberman

 

 

 

This letter I wrote was read at Queen's Park at Ontario Legislature by Nicole Crellin who is associated with

 The Citizens' Commission on Human Rights.

After all these years I was fortunate to meet Nicole in March of 2009. I am grateful to be able get this information out so parents have a choice. They will be able to educate themselves if they don't want to medicate their children.  

Nicole's Crellin Website

"Fighting for Parent's

                     and Children's Rights"

Making A Killing The Untold Story of Psychotropic Drugging

Watch a DVD The Untold Story Of Psychotropic Drugging it will open your eyes how these Psychotic drugs are being misused.  It was so upsetting to see what is going on. Click here

 

 

  •      A MIND OF AUTISM

Please look at Daniel's story how when he was a child he would have wanted for his syndrome to be taken away but now he is happy being who he is.

An extraordinary young man. These children have some incredible gifts so like I have always thought and wrote nurture them with love and understanding so they will grow to their full potential.  Like we have been able to do with our son. Otherwise they could become angry self-destructive with no social skills and become very lonely, unhappy adults.

Daniel Tammet - Born On A Blue Day. Daniel describes his very unusual autism Daniel Tammet - Born On A Blue Day.

 

 

 
 

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Mum You are now one of our Angels

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You get to a place in your life and you just want peace and Harmony

I found a letter from my grandfather wrote to his loving daughters Lily and Violet my mother and her twin sister.

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It's OK to be different Be Proud of who you are

You are an Endearing light of Sunbeams and moonbeams

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 ASPERGER'S YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL TO ME

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  MAUDESupport Unite for Drug-Free Education

 

The name MAUDE came to me in 2006. The logo came to me one night, I think it was about a year later. I kept thinking what would be the right image to portray what I wanted to put together for mothers of children with High Functioning Autism and ADD who wanted to take the drug-free approach. I meditated, in the silence of my thoughts all of a sudden the vision of the Dolphin came to me. We had a company do a search of the name MAUDE.  The name was  already being used so we came up with the name  

MAUDES

which we liked better. I drew the picture of the Dolphin for the Logo

 

 

 MAUDES stands for 

MOTHERS of ASPERGER'S/ADD UNITE for DRUG-FREE EDUCATION SUPPORT

 

  HIGH FUNCTIONING AUTISM-- ASPERGER'S with ADD

A lot of these children are diagnosed first with ADD or ADDHD 

 

 

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Catch a Falling Star

 

Perhaps one parent out there may see our website and decide to take the drug free approach. It

 only takes one person to stand up and say this is wrong to drug our beloved children I felt

 very alone sometimes but I knew in my heart I was doing what I need to do to help our child.

 One day things will change but until then these children will have to rely on what is available

out there and it seems they are still using these psychotic drugs on our children.

 

click here Do you know what it feels like to have this syndrome?

 

Some of the links you will need a password

 

I always believed our son would do well in life with our love and my faith

 

   We are always going to have things that will come up in our lives that will cause us stress.  Drugs or natural products are not a cure and there is no cure right now for this syndrome.  We are teaching our son to take responsibility for his life and to be able to cope with his stress without medication, we have proof it does work.  It's not always going to be easy, it can be damn hard yes sometimes you feel you want to give up but you can't, no one understands unless they have been through it you have to have the faith it will get better and I can tell you this .......it does.   If you are willing to put the time and effort in and have patience

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Listen to a truly beautiful Blessing it will open up your Heart and bring tears to your Eyes  

  

 http://www.andiesisle.com/ThisBlessingIsForYou.htm

 

I use to watch Touch by an Angel with our son when he was young 

 

My letter I wrote was read at Queen's Park at Ontario Legislature

Nicole's Crellin Website

If you are interested in fighting for your children's rights

 


Doctor who helped us

Watch a DVD The Untold Story Of Psychotropic Drugging it will open your

 eyes how these Psychotic drugs are being misused. Making A Killing The Untold Story of Psychotropic Drugging

 Click here

 

Autism is not a disease

 

 

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Mother Mother, whose womb I snuggled in so restfully and warm. My eyes opened the day I was born. I look up to see your eyes gazing into mine, a bond mother and child. Mother Mother, who will always care, the love that we will always share. Mother Mother, I am now the bond that we share and will carry on Through the ages, like a circle we're born, again Taught to love, feel and learn to do all we cant. To make this world a better place. For our children's children, for they are our future of our destiny. Mother and child. I love you, Mum-Photobucket.-- Your loving daughter   wrote 1995--

 

 

 

A mothers Love

 

A mother has this special bond with her child, when your child is suffering we just want to make it better. It is a genetic thing with mothers that's why we suffer more with guilt we are the nurturers and want to make things right for our family and people we care about.

 

 We are very blessed we got through it but not without difficulties. 

 

Listen to a Roma Downey

   My Little Angel

Roma Downey's words resonate the glory of  God's love for his creation of all children in the world.  Our beautiful  special needs children are a gift from God  they are sent to us for a reason to teach us love, compassion and understanding.
                                                         

 

 

 

 

You will cry so many tears of hopelessness. 

 

 Things can happen you don't expect and the stress can be overwhelming with these special needs children and you will cry so many tears of hopelessness. You can either give up or say I will get through this no matter what. As my dear old mother would say 'what doesn't kill you makes you stronger' I believed if I didn't look for help for our child then who would help him. 

I can say this shall pass but when you are going through all those stresses it's overwhelming. When I had no one to talk to I would pray and ask for strength and guidance because no one can understand how we feel. My faith helped me through the difficult times, I hope your faith

 Helps you!...........   

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

If you believe, really believe with love in your heart

 some wonderful things will happen.

As the Beatle song goes

 "All you need is Love, Love

 all you need is."

 

LOVE!

 

 

 Just like Colours of a Rainbow!

I know what we share will give you the opportunity to see why we were able to help our son.  I pray from my heart you will be able to do the same for yourself or your loved ones. I thought you had to be like Temple Grandin to have this syndrome, that's not true these children are all so different and unique just like  

 

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A lot of these children can be beautiful looking and could want to become models like the girl in

America's Next Top Model 

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WE HAVE WALKED WHERE SOME OF YOU HAVE YET TO GO

 

 

" SO" WE ARE ALL UNIQUE IN OUR OWN WAY.

 

 

LOVE YOUR CHILDREN FOR WHO THEY ARE

 

WE ARE ALL CONNECTED IN ONE WAY OR ANOTHER

 

 

WE ARE MADE OF ENERGY SO HAVING POSITIVE ENERGY AROUND US IS VERY IMPORTANT.

WE CAN EITHER BUILD OUR CHILDREN UP WITH POSITIVE REINFORCEMENT OR KNOCK

THEM DOWN WITH OUR  ACTIONS AND NEGATIVE WORDS.

 

 SO HOW ARE OUR CHILDREN ABLE TO FEEL GOOD

 

 

 

ABOUT THEMSELVES IF WE DON'T LOVED TH

EM FOR WHO THEY ARE  

 

Love & Happiness 

If you could write your child's story before coming into this world you would want it to be a beautiful story with lots Love & Happiness having them being accepted for who they are not for what we want them to be? 

 

 

This videos is from a beautiful website that she shares with others

 

 


"Words"

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The words we speak can change a life.
We choose.
 Sweetly sung by Wendy Francisco. 

Have you heard sticks and stones may break your bones but names will never hurt you. That's not true words cut deep into a child's heart they are always there in our deepest sorrow. So be kind don't carry your hurt or your anger by taking it out on a children. My mother would say to me when I would cry because a child had been cruel.  She would say most likely that child had been bullied, she is not a bad person but a angry child that's acting out her hurt and frustrations 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Mum You are now one of our

Angels

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 I told my son when he was a little boy, even though the umbilical cord was cut, he will be part of me no matter what, I will always be there for him. He is so special to us, when you have so much love as a mother or father, you will do anything to help your child or children, but do it the right way. Love can do such wonderful  things, because love can heal your child's sorrow, make them strong and walk tall.  Because when they know you truly love them for who they really are and believe in them, they will believe in themselves and will achieve some  amazing things in life. Our son will soar like an eagle, like I wrote in my poem.

  My poem I saw my Angel when I was a little Girl

 

 

 

 

 
 

It's such an incredible feeling to know

It's such an incredible feeling to know that all the heartache, frustration and sticking to what I believed in and taking the natural approach and not to give in when I felt there was no hope for our son. I had this strong faith that no matter what negative feed-back I got, I knew I was doing the right thing it's called intuition, that gut feeling it will never steer you wrong. Like I mentioned sometimes I haven't listened to it and it has caused me grief in the past, but I always learnt something from it and it gave me wisdom.   It gave me the courage to know we have to go through these things in our life even though at the time we don't really know why. You will see with the  words that I have written, from this journey of feeling hopeless sometimes not knowing where to turn but in my heart I knew, I just knew, I would be guided to help our son on the road for him to becoming the young man he needed to be. We loved him for who he is, but never let him feel sorry for himself he had to know right from wrong.  You realize it's ok to make mistakes we didn't always do it the right way,  We were only able to do what we were capable of doing at that moment because it was a new experience for us. We had never gone through this before. why was our son acting this way, this was 1990 there wasn't the information like there is today.  That's why it's important to educate ourselves, be open to see there is help out there without medicating out beloved children.

We are all connected in one way or another

 

 

 

 

 

WE ARE WRITING A BOOK HOW WE HELPED OUR SON TAKING THE DRUG-FREE APPROACH.

 

SOMETIMES WE THINK WE KNOW THE ANSWERS IT TOOK US MANY YEARS

 TO GET OUR SON TO WHERE HE IS TODAY. WITH PATIENCE, DEDICATION, BY NEVER

 GIVING UP, KNOWING I WAS DOING THE RIGHT THING, BELIEVING IN OUR SON

SO HE BELIEVED IN HIMSELF. WE NOW CAN SAY

 AS A MOTHER AND FATHER OF AN ASPERGER'S YOUNG MAN WITH ADD

 WHO HAS HAD AND WILL HAVE CHALLENGES IN HIS LIFE,

 

  WE CAN SAY PROUDLY

 

You have come a long way son!

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 A child who has come so far

A child who has come so far,  he didn't let his syndrome stop him achieving his goals. We taught him  good manners, good work ethics and good morals because we believed in him he believed in himself. This enabled him to pursue his dreams in wanting to be in the television industry.  He has discipline. he knows it's a tough world out there.  Nothing is given to you in this world.  You have to work at it, by focusing and staying on task which is something he is able to do now. He has friends, he has confidence in himself a good sense of humour, He volunteers at a local T.V station he doesn't want anyone to know he has this syndrome he doesn't want to be treated any different, you know what? I don't think anyone would know. He works and studies very hard. We are very proud of him and know he will do very well in life, our wonderful gift from God, he is really coming into his own. It takes time for these children to mature it's nice sometimes that he has that innocence.


 

 

 

 

In times of sorrow I would pray and ask my angels and God for guidance. If you don't have hope and faith then what do You Have.

How could I not have my angels and God's love helping me, because if I  haven't had the faith our son would not be Where He is Today. 

As a loving mother and father you will do anything to help your child or children

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As long as I believe in myself that's all that matters 

 As long as I believe in myself that's all that matters.  I wouldn't be where I am today with my son and family if that wasn't true. Sometimes being women we don't take credit and stand up for what we feel is right. Because of my dear mother, as I got older I was able to stand up for myself. Because you can be picked on and bullied, put down, my mother's words would always resonate with me. It gave me the strength to know I have a voice and a right to feel I am valuable and no one as the right to take that away from you. Because of things that can happen in our childhood that we are not able to control can lead us to having problems getting in relationships with people we think we can trust and they let us down. That's got nothing to do with us it's their problem. you can't be responsible for other people's actions only they know why they do what they do. As long as you are responsible and have integrity then you know you have nothing to fear. You can be taken advantage of but if you know the truth and where your heart is that's all that counts. I have the faith to know it's ok to make mistakes sometimes because I care, it's not the end of the world.  I never blame, to me it was a learning experience and it made me wiser and stronger.  I am very passionate in what I do because I know how                                    These Children Feel !  

 

 



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We are writing a book A mother & Father story how we helped our son taking the drug free approach. When our book is finished we would like to donate the proceeds towards helping other children who have High Functioning Autism

 

 

 

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